Homo Vitruvianus
Sebastian Winkler
Clinical Psychologist | Psychotherapist

PERSONAL COUNSELING

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Personal Counseling and Psychotherapy

There are many reasons for which you might seek counseling or psychotherapy. Be it that you are living through an acute crisis, are looking to improve a long-standing condition, or simply feel that your personal situation is stuck in some way. Most of the time, such moments and phases are marked by diminished clarity and sense of orientation. In counseling or therapy you can find accompaniment on the quest of thoroughly looking at and understanding your situation, both compassionately and dispassionately.

SERVICES

Clientele and Modalities. In my practice, I work with adults and adolescents in one-on-one, couples, and group settings. See below for more details on each modality.

Counseling or Therapy. In practise, making a strict distinction between the two is rarely useful, because they seemlessly blend into one another. In a nutshell, the difference is mostly one of weighing and emphasis. From the start, counselling is more solution oriented, whereas therapy takes more time to linger on the problem itself (e.g., its origin, its meaning, and how it manifests itself in different areas of life). The latter may seem like a wasteful approach to our expedience oriented way of thinking. However, it can sometimes be a very much needed first step. (You can read more on the differences here.)
But really, to start, you really only need to know that you want to begin your process.

In-Person or Online. While sharing the same physical space is still generally the best way to go about counselling and therapy, today's video-call solutions (e.g., Zoom, Google Meet, etc.) can offer a good meeting experience. I have come to consider online work to be on-par with in-person work, while also offering some obvious advantages. It is finding a quiet private corner that permits an intimate get-together of this kind, that can sometimes pose a challenge.

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ABOUT ME

My Approach to Psychotherapy and Counseling

Hi, I’m Sebastian! Father of four, born 1972 in Hamburg, Germany, I’ve been living in Portugal since 2000.

I came to my profession later in life, beginning my training as a clinical psychologist in my mid-thirties. Initially, I intended to follow in my mother’s footsteps to become a behavior therapist. However, due to what I perceived as irreconcilable differences concerning that school’s inherent conception of man, I had to reorient myself. After some searching, I finally came across Gestalt Therapy, and that’s when things truly clicked for me.

What initially captivated me was Gestalt Therapy’s impressive “ingredient list”: the unique and vibrant blend of rich, fascinating sources and influences from diverse origins upon which it is founded. Beyond that, I resonated deeply with the founding personalities themselves—Fritz Perls’ eclectic free spirit, Paul Goodman’s sharp counter-culture, and Lore Perls’ warm-hearted existentialism.

Today, Gestalt forms the underpinnings of my therapeutic work, while other, complementary perspectives have increasingly shaped my work in the foreground:

  • a life-affirming yet unapologetic view of the human condition, which I owe particularly to Johanna Herzog-Dürck’s Personal Psychotherapy;
  • the down-to-earth yet uplifting conception of man pioneered in Alfred Adler’s Individual Psychology;
  • and finally, the paradigm-shifting philosophical anthropology of Hermann Schmitz’s New Phenomenology:

My Therapeutic Stance

Taken together, I would characterize my therapeutic stance today as:

  • Compassionately Accepting. No matter where we aim to go, the starting point must always be “what is.” There is always something deeply moving in the inevitability of your current state and in the small and large personal tragedies that led to it.
  • Situation- and Process-Oriented. Understanding your condition in light of your circumstances; we are all a work in progress.
  • Existential. it’s always also about the big questions.
  • Supportingly Challenging. Helping you find your way, and, when necessary, giving you a gentle push forward.
  • Respectfully Dialogical. Ultimately, we are simply two people engaging, exchanging, and working through things together.

Testimonials

Because finding the right therapist is a personal matter.

Moving halfway around the world, retirement, and an unexpected medical diagnosis…some of big high stress events in any life. After moving to Caldas I realized that I needed help processing all my high stress events. I had spent some time looking around for an English-speaking therapist in the Caldas area and was excited to see a poster for Sebastian’s practice. His “office” is a peaceful, first-floor room with large windows facing the park. In winter and in summer, light floods the room creating a space that seems perfect for healing. I found his approach very beneficial for me, helping me to identify where I was getting stuck and helping to direct me back to the things I was avoiding. After the first couple of sessions, we came up with a game plan to get me back up and moving forward. In the future, should I find myself needing a tuneup or something new arrises, Sebastian will be the first call I make.

C.L.L.

Never thought myself to be the person to go and find a qualified professional to talk to, about my problems. I took the step nevertheless, I had to, for me, and walked into a very pleasant environment, welcomed by a firm and confident hand shake. Immediately, I felt at ease, in the comfortable, ample space to talk and walk and listen and reflect: “What can I do for you?” Well…a lot, it turned out. After several months of sessions, I started feeling a lot better about myself, having been able to express my feelings in the trusted environment, that was key. I received no judgement, did a lot of self-reflection, was presented with different angles of looking at situations and feelings and learned ways to be able to go forward. My sessions came to an end when Mr. Winkler deemed me good to go without his help, which I experienced as a personal victory. Thank you very much Mr. Winkler, for getting me back in the saddle of life.

B.v.D.

Sebastian is a great psychotherapist. In my experience, his deep understanding of not just psychology but also of the human condition, gives him the ability to grant his clients the tools and perspective they need to overcome whatever obstacles they face. If you feel like you need a guiding hand, Sebastian is your guy.

L.M.

Apesar de a minha vida estar estável (ter um bom emprego, ser saudável, e ter uma relação bastante firme desde há vários anos) sentia que algumas situações do passado estavam a limitar muitas das minhas decisões do presente e futuro, e que por isso precisavam de ser revisitadas e trabalhadas. Foi isso que me fez procurar o Sebastian e começar o processo de análise interna sobre emoções antigas, situações vindas da minha infância e adolescência, e trabalhar em conjunto para entender como “encaixá-los” na minha vida atual.
Não tenho a menor dúvida de que se não tivesse procurado o apoio do Sebastian, ainda hoje estaria presa ao meu passado, e este continuaria, inconscientemente, a controlar as minhas decisões. Agradeço bastante todo o apoio e dedicação nesta jornada - obrigada Sebastian!
Obrigada,

Caterina Santiago

Primeiro de tudo, confesso que sempre fui cético em relação á ajuda psicológica ou psiquiatra. Sempre achei que somos capazes de ultrapassar e resolver os nossos problemas e medos sozinho. Com o Sebastian aprendi que estava errado. Numa altura que achei que não havia saídas, que teria que viver com todos os medos que ma acompanhavam, o Sebastian fez me acreditar que o tempo acaba por resolver tudo. Numa altura que cada vez era mais difícil conviver comigo próprio (ainda que não esteja resolvido, e talvez nunca esteja) o Sebastian fez me acreditar mais em mim. Acima de tudo, a minha experiência no processo terapêutico/aconselhamento com o Sebastian ajudou-me hoje a olhar para vida e acima de tudo para o meu futuro com muito mais positivismo e esperança. Hoje acredito que também eu sou merecedor. Existem frases e palavras naquelas sessões que guardo em mim e que me servem de guias. Talvez seja um processo continuo que ainda não teve o seu desfecho e quem sabe se não voltarei um dia. Talvez ainda tenho alguns pesos que carrego, apesar de ter consciência que naquela sala deixei muitos.

Marco

Um ser humano e profissional com uma capacidade de escuta significativa e transformadora. Sou profundamente grata pela sua presença e sabedoria, que fizeram a diferença no meu processo terapêutico e na minha vida. Obrigada.

M.B.

CONTACT

For questions and appointments, please contact me by phone or message at +351 934 414 733, or email me at contact@sebastianwinkler.pt.

Rua de Camões nº75 1º, Caldas da Rainha